MISTAKE #1: Being Too Much Of A "Nice Guy"
-By David DeAngelo, Author Of “Double Your Dating”
Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be attracted "nice" guys?
Of course you have.
Just like me, I'm sure you've had attractive female friends that always seemed to date "jerks"... but for some reason they were never romantically interested in YOU.
What's going on here?
It's actually very simple...
Women don't base their choices of men on how "nice" a guy is. They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them.
And guess what?
Being nice doesn't make a woman FEEL that powerful ATTRACTION.
And being NICE doesn't make a woman CHOOSE you.
I realize that this doesn't make a lot of logical sense, and it's hard to ACCEPT... but GET OVER IT.
Until you accept this FACT and begin to act on it, you'll NEVER have the success with women that you want.
-Van-
Irvan, hmm .. siapa ya ?
Facebook Badge
Labels
Blogumulus by Roy Tanck and Amanda Fazani
My Yahoo Messenger is ..
Blog Archive
Artist's Blog n Forum
My Friend's Blog
Anda pengunjung ke-
5 komentar:
Let me try to give some comments from communication perspective ^^
According to my perception:
Being a nice guy is not a mistake....
When i was a girl, i was thinking like this:
The nice guy identically perceived as a loser or the one who has no power. In the other hand, most women like a man that could protect her in every condition, famous in their society (campus/ school), and adore by others... Usually men with this type have a high self-confidence, making them such an arrogant, selfish, and egoist.. The other question is why the women still choose this guy's type? Because this type of guy could make women feel secure and of course, proud. But in the end, women will feel that they are dominated.
So, is there anything wrong with a nice guys? No, as long as they have self-regard.. most of the nice guy sometimes forget to keep their self-regard as they are so busy gain attention and acceptance by being so nice.. but the result is they will be more unappreciated by the women because the women thought the nice guy are more easy to get manipulated and desperate.
When I grow up, I started to think that good physical allure with a large acceptance in society not too important anymore. A nice guy have an added value to woman as they could understand and trying to fulfill her desire. If the nice guy do that thing with heart then the woman can felt it. The kindness of the nice guy will be remembered forever!!
So there is no doubt that nice guy will be more popular these day. At least they obeyed some rules: they do the kindness with integrity (not for get any selfish benefit) and even they are nice, they have to keep their self-regard. So, there is no doubt to be a nice guy!!^^
Best Regards,
YeLena
Yah emank ga ada salahnya jdi nice guy
Tapi klo "too much" kan jdi ga enak juga, mungkin aja isa ngebikin si cewe jdi agak risih gtu,tapi emank semua itu balik ke individunya lagi
iya jg si van.. umumnya co cool yang biasanya malah bikin cewe penasaran^^
huahuaaaahha
kayak gw ini maksud lu Yel
hauhauhuha .. ngga bgt!!
i agree to yelena..
passing here
Post a Comment